Been mostly single for the better part of 15 years. Some came short term and went. I am perfectly happy but also very open. If he comes then hurray he does not, i have a million things going on and a lovely group of friends.
I do get your point though so no criticism from me. You were me ten years ago. When i was in my twenties and saw everyone around me being happily coupled.
It seems to be you were talking about yourself in this article but deep down wanted convincing that it is indeed true.
Happily single is very possible, am surrounded by women who are. It’s just that they are not online trying to prove their point, they are out in the world not giving a damn.
wish you love and happiness :)